It concerns me that you came back after a half hour to reassure us that you’re “normal”. You need to get back to selling Mentos and pawning off all of those extra guns, so you can save up for that '70 Plymouth Road Runner that you’re going to haul your harem of fiercely attractive wemin around with. Otherwise Urza can never respect you as an equal.
That’s the spirit.
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“extra guns”
ayy lmao
I only personally own one gun and if you think I’m pawning off my raifu you oughta be out of your mind
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let me get like two or three more raifus and then I’ll get a car so I can get a waifu
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You might own a bb gun. Even then I’d say your parents are recklessly damn irresponsible.
That’s pretty good
That’s pretty good for a rough sketch. Very light pencil lines though which makes it hard to see. I bet if you cleaned up the rough lines and inked it would look a lot better.
[ATTACH=CONFIG]3858[/ATTACH] Here I made you something its been a very long time since I have drawn anime. I actually have some old sketch pads full of comic style drawings but no scanner so I drew this in paint shop pro with a mouse shading is off but I got lazy…
real girl?
Speak with her.
Pretty much the gist of all the advice you can find on the internet.
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Also the only thing that works.
You could consider acting like some X or like you were a Y (something the girl would like), that works too… not really a good thing though.
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All in all, just show your interest.
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Things will grow from there.
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o, how to talk.
Girls are human beings, they will enjoy talking their interests as much as anyone.
They differ from men in certain ways but it’s a “temper” thing, no code to crack really. Wing it, the novelty will be interesting and chances are high she’s as much inexperienced at talking with romantically interested guys as you are with girls. She might find you oblivious at times (girls do that it seems) but if she’s a healthy individual and your relationship is healthy it’s only going to add to the nicety of it all.
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Ok that obliviousness part was a bit rosy…
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dont tell me to buy a fucking mustang
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Mopar or no car.
You just have to be confident without being self centered. Letting people talk about themselves is the good strategy in general, so focus on being a good listener. (Listening is a balance of being supportive and engaged without trying to push solutions and such, people just need to talk out the stuff in their head in order to better structure it for themselves.) Find out what she’s into in general and look for hobbies that you find interesting that she’d probably like and explore them together. (Cooking/baking, kite building, fish keeping, stuff like that…)
You like drawing, are there any of those social painting places around that you could ask her to? (In Ohio we have a few chains, no idea whether there are any in Canadia. Something like http://www.pinotspalette.com/) Any evening/weekend craft/hobby class is a low pressure way break the ice, most people enjoy them but just don’t want to go alone. It might be easier to just ask her to a school play unless the next one is too far out.
Just decide what you’re going to talk to her about and approach her with it. Don’t directly ask her to date you or be your girlfriend, just ask her to whatever the outing would be. It will help the conversation feel natural and makes it less scary for you and much easier to recover and try again later. It’s unlikely she’ll outright put you down unless you’re uncivil about it.
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this grill is mirin’ me pretty sure
but she’s a Jap
and I feel like a race traitor
and worry she won’t understand English very well either
plus Jap grills are weird and I’ll probably accidentally mess up shit without even knowing because muhh cultural differences
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I wouldn’t worry about any of that stuff, being foreign I think that she’d be interested in having somebody to go out, explore, and try new things with. If she’s isolated because of her English she’ll likely appreciate you legitimately wanting to be her friend. It could actually play to your advantage because you know that she actually needs somebody to help her get out and acclimate to Canadia.
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this grill is mirin’ me pretty sure
but she’s a Jap
and I feel like a race traitor
and worry she won’t understand English very well either
plus Jap grills are weird and I’ll probably accidentally mess up shit without even knowing because muhh cultural differences
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She also might act in a way that might “mess up shit” to you. So no worries?
Language barrier, deal with it. I’ve read success stories of couples who didn’t even know a word of each other’s languages at first… so heh.
Build up some real confidence.
(If you figure out how to do that… u damn good; she might also be helpful on that side ;).)
lol
Draw her winning an award and show it to her
Bust out the hentai. That may spark some dialogue.
Maybe me laugh/10
top kek
On a serious note…
Are you trying to postpone her awareness of you?
Why?
You know she might already be aware of you?
If she is, she’s already developing a point of view of who you are.
Whether she is or not anyway, whenever you’ll talk to her, she’ll react to you. You’re not perfect, to strive for that is a rabbit hole; it’s similar in effect to striving to never achieve anything.
EDIT:
Fucken wrote thrive instead of strive O_O
“hey guys what’s going on in the forums haven’t been back in mo–” what the fuck
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[QUOTE=dylan;112041]“h-hey you’re pretty kawaii, you remind me of the girls from my h-he-hentai mangas, do you w-wanna be muhh w-waifu?”[/QUOTE]
don’t go full autism
So did she agree to play Terraria with us or what? I must know.
She digs you
give her your ‘physical education’
http://www.digitaldialects.com/Japanese.htm
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how can that be the best I could find X_X
Omg Dylan has a girlfriend